For Pete's Sake by Mary Bradley
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
A Half Century of Friendship
I just returned from an 18-day trip
to Italy with three high school classmates that I have known since the age of
five. We all have birthdays within 1 ½
months of each other, and we creatively decided two years ago (at our 30th
class reunion) that going to Italy should be our goal for the big half-century
bash.
Little did we know that, in that
short time, so much life would happen.
One would renovate the entire upstairs of her home. Another would help begin a new family business. One would see her daughter married. And sadly, one would endure the death of her
only child. In other words, we really
needed this trip for rejuvenation!
There are ever-ending reasons to
travel with friends one has known for an entire lifetime. We all had our talents and skills and played
on them. Donna has a no-nonsense
approach to life. Her favorite quote is,
“It’s none of my business what other people think of me.” She also has an impeccable sense of direction,
a “more guts than brains” approach to driving in a foreign country, and a love
for photography that made her the designated photo historian for the vacation.
Brenda was our traveling pharmaceutical
dispenser of naturopathic products, determined to keep the group from getting a
cold or flu from all of the coughing and non-handwashing travelers. Who knows; she might have even kept us from
the bubonic plague in a few medieval towns we visited. She was Johnny on the Spot with hand sanitizer,
Handi Wipes, chewable Airborne tablets, and even a concoction to spray down the
throat. Brenda also could be a sailor,
because she had a keen sense of where the sun was at all times. East.
West. High noon. You get the drift, no pun intended.
Beth’s claim to fame was being the
one who could actually pronounce some Italian correctly. It also didn’t hurt that, being so darn cute,
foreigners would actually try to listen…even if she wasn’t pronouncing it
correctly. She was also our
fashionista. Every group needs one of
these so we know how good we SHOULD have looked.
I served as Donna’s co-pilot in the
front seat, serving as the GPS interpreter.
Along with messing up foreign languages without trying, my other claim
to fame is giggling whenever I am told it is not appropriate.
Many say I must get this from my
mother.
We began our trip in Venice where,
the last time I visited, I got pooped on by a pigeon. On my way back to the
hotel, I was told by every Asian I passed that this was “Rots of Ruck.” Let’s just say that Donna and I both became
“rucky” on this trip. Her luck came with
a splotch down the side of her hair in Bologna, and mine descended with a plop
on the forehead in Fiesole.
One day we took a seven-hour food
tour where, within the first two hours, Donna dropped her cheese, bent over to
clean it up, and splashed red wine down the front of our tour guide’s white tee
shirt, jeans, and tennis shoes. In her
defense, no one should be offered wine that early in the morning in the first
place.
A balloon trip had been on Brenda’s
bucket list so the rest of us were determined to make it happen, especially
after her loss of Michael. We were
actually able to keep it a secret until the trailer pulled up next to us. Brenda’s claim to fame was being able to step
into and out of the hot air balloon’s basket as if she was stepping into a
shower. The rest of us, with much
shorter legs, looked like we were struggling for our lives.
Beth was the only one that refused
to spit off the top of the Leaning Tower of Pisa. She is the most refined on the trip, but the
rest of us (farm girls that we are) believe she chickened out because she was
never taught to properly chuck a loogie.
It could also be because she works in a law office and knows certain
actions get you behind bars.
Unfortunately, my biggest
memory-making moment was a “Lost in Translation” one. In Italy, ciao (pronounced chow) is used for hello
or a casual bye. For example, “Ciao,
bella” means “Goodbye, pretty woman.”
Using my haphazard knowledge of Spanish, I assumed that adding an o to
bella would mean “handsome man.”
“Bello” does, in fact, mean good-looking
man. What I was told, after eight days
of already saying this to every male cashier I had dealt with (some of them
toothless), was that I was saying something completely inappropriate. When a woman says, “Ciao, bello” to a man it
means, “Let’s go to bed.”
This talent I did not get from my
mother.
Despite this, the trip was a
fabulous one. Few people are fortunate
enough to say, “I want to relive my 50th birthday all over again” or
“I’ve had a close friendship with so-and-so for a half of a century.” Even fewer can say they’ve taken an 18-day
trip with friends without killing each other.
Now THAT’S true friendship.
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Once a Nurse, Always a Nurse
Thanks to a string of bad luck this week, I had plenty of time to reminisce with nurses in Urgent Care clinics and the Emergency room. I will tell you that tripping on a 3” pot hole on the sidewalk can lead to a damaged hand, and that a 24-hour flu bug with more trips to the bathroom than one can count can lead to major dehydration.
But that’s a story for another day.
I decided that once a nurse, one’s always a nurse. Even when one’s been out of the system for 20 years, things of importance come back to you. The fall elicited the skill from within of how to splint an injured hand using a flat pack of gum and an ACE bandage. Not being able to sit up without my ears ringing meant I was dehydrated, not that angels were humming to me.
What I remembered most, though, were nursing school stories and the things nurses find themselves doing to help our patients, for better or worse.
I graduated from nursing school in 1984. This, to some of you, is equivalent to the Dark Ages. We drew blood without gloves, some nurses still wore traditional nursing caps, and we used glass thermometers with mercury that one had to shake to get back down to zero degrees for the next patient.
One of the exciting new additions in the hospital in 1983 was an electric thermometer, the kind they now put under your tongue and…beep… displays the digital reading of your temperature. Our contraption had a 50-pound base that plugged into the wall. Attached to this base were four lightweight packs (less than 1 pound each) that nurses removed, hung around their necks, and took into their patients’ rooms when gathering vital signs.
I remember being at the nurses’ station as a student. Suddenly the chief nurse was running up and down the hall frantically shouting, “Someone’s stolen our new thermometer machine!” Then, at the far end of the hall, I saw my classmate laboriously lugging the heavy base from one patient’s room to the next with the long cord dragging behind her. She innocently failed to realize there were portable units.
A nurse friend of mine tells of the time a genuinely grumpy doctor was doing an exam on an elderly woman with poor hearing. Every time he would say, “Wiggle your toes for me,” she would instead stick out her tongue and wiggle it. Perhaps this is funny only after working a 12-hour shift, but we laughed and laughed…not at the patient, but at the mental visual of how the not-humored doctor reacted!
Sometimes experience is the best teacher. A nursing classmate was in charge of collecting and refilling the water pitchers for every room on our hospital floor. It was her first time. Suddenly there was a swarm of nursing students coming to her rescue before the instructor could see what had happened. She had collected every male patient’s plastic urinal and had begun filling them with ice and water. The only way to save this classmate from getting an F was to come to her aid.
One of my favorite stories as a brand new nurse took place at Walter Reed in Washington D.C. I was on the neurosurgical floor with another nurse who followed protocol and textbooks like the law. That evening we had a young soldier with a brain tumor that could not go to sleep because he kept seeing chickens in his room.
I knew the correct thing to do was to bring him back to reality at all costs. I wanted to “chase the chickens out of the room” to calm him down, but I also knew I was working with the other nurse who would totally disapprove. I asked for her help, and she walked into his room to ask what the fuss was all about.
Claiming that he was surrounded by chickens, the nurse stoically walked to his door, methodically looked up and down the hall, and—with all of the composure in the world--walked back in. She looked at me squarely in the eyes and said, “Let’s do this.”
And with that, she and I started swinging our arms while beckoning, “Shoo, Shoo, Shoo” as we chased the foul out of the room. Not surprisingly, the patient slept calmly for the rest of the night.
The same nursing classmate who had “stolen” the electric thermometer would later pull another faux pas. This time she was checking the hearing of a patient. It is protocol to inform patients to raise a hand when they hear a high or low-pitched sound in the earphones. Other nursing students walked in half-way through the test. We stood in amazement as sounds were sent to this patient’s earphones, one after another, with no response.
Suddenly, the patient jumped from her chair and said, “Whew! That was a LOUD one!” Unaware to the rest of us, my friend had failed to tell this woman to raise a hand whenever she heard a sound.
Let’s just say that I bet her ears were ringing, and this time it wasn’t from dehydration.
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